I love games. Don’t get me wrong, I just don’t have time these days to play them as much as I’d like. I work in the gaming industry at imVOX, and prior to that at gamerDNA.
Gamers at large clamor for the newest hot game to come out as soon as possible, but I have to wonder how many of 18+ gamers just don’t have time to play them. I’ve got probably 40+ modern PS3/360 games on my shelf and two dozen more in Steam. I have a World of Warcraft account, but I haven’t logged in over a month. I wonder if my guild has kicked me out yet, but I don’t have the time to really check. A friend gave me the Warhammer MMO and I never even loaded it up. Many other games I’ve only played for a few minutes or haven’t loaded at all. All of the best intentions to play them have fallen to other daily tasks.
So what gets in the way? I’m sure the list is different for everyone who has grown past their teens. I don’t have any kids to take my time, and my wonderful girlfriend doesn’t mind me playing as long as I don’t completely neglect her. Yet, life isn’t as open and sparse as it once was. Work eats a good portion of the day. General household tasks. Working on my motorcycles. Roadtrips. Playing guitar. Reading. Dining out. Spending time with friends.
It isn’t just the growth of responsibility, but also the joy of finding more in life that interests me and takes priority. Riding a motorcycle in real life beats riding one in GTA:IV. I couldn’t have done that when I was 13. Older people (I’m only 27) don’t hate games. Your parents probably don’t hate games or find them silly, but just have a hard time really fitting them into their day in a responsible way. Massively long games like Final Fantasy XIII just don’t stand a chance on my schedule. Portal or Heavy Rain are much more fitting for my time.
Gaming is a very attention intense activity. Few great games play well as a background task. I can’t cook dinner, hold a decent conversation or read a book while playing Halo ODST. I can listen to music or NPR however.
Back in the day games could include ‘feelies‘ to enhance the gaming experience (and occasionally as copy protection). No matter the cost of a game the one feelie I wish was included with every game was a spare 20 hours to enjoy it. I’ve got 3d Dot Game Heroes and Red Dead Redemption coming in the mail today and yet I know that I won’t get as much use out of them as I’d like.
Is this just sign of getting older? Perhaps. I know some gamers just a few years older than myself who are able to dedicate more time to the pursuit, but it becomes something you must consciously choose and you make sacrifices elsewhere.